Finding Forgiveness.

Two years ago yesterday I had my internal hemi-pelvectomy with limb sparring surgery, throughout this blog I have given updates and kept a running theme about my recovery and my journey to become healthier and more functional. The last two years have certainly brought their triumphs and their defeats and through it all I have Read More…

Been Struggling for Awhile

I have been struggling for a long time, feeling like my life has become meaningless, and that I have reached the sum of my existence. Some would suddenly perk up their ears and think I am become self destructive,  but that’s not the case, in fact I have never been more focused on feeling like Read More…

A Friend Let His Demons Win Last Night

Earlier this evening I received word that a friend took his own life last night. Losing someone is never easy, but in this case he was young, had a wife and family, and so many good things in his life. I realize that none of those things truly matter to someone who starts down the Read More…

Follow Up to Yesterday

I have had a little over 24 hours to digest what my doctor had to say yesterday, I have spoken to two trusted friends about things and was surprised at their response, both felt that I would be better off losing the leg. This of course is not something I am at all interested in Read More…

Got the News About My New Pelvis

Today I got  a phone call from my Orthopedist Dr. Cheng today, he wanted to follow up on the results of my blood draw yesterday. I am currently free of infection which was as expected. My doctor laid out three options as he saw them which I will detail out shortly. I feel the need Read More…

Feeling Un-Sure

I am feeling rather unsure of myself right now, that’s the best way to put things.  I left the world of full time user experience design in 2015 because my soul needed to be out outside, I simply put couldn’t handle another lay off, another cubicle job, and yet another disappointed look from Mrs. ZM Read More…